Adulthood is Awfully Lonely

The bliss of childhood is unmatched. The fact that we could be goofy and silly with no care in the world. There was always someone to run to, a hand to carry us and another to wipe our tears anytime we cried. We were literally the center of attention with everything revolving around us. That close bond we shared with our siblings, the quality family time we had; everyone sitting around the table, cracking jokes and sharing laughter. Hmm, those memories. They soon fade, and before you know it, you're no longer a teenager. You're a full-fledged adult with responsibilities.

Nothing fully prepares you for the loneliness that comes with adulthood. It's not a matter of being introverted or extroverted. Even if you have a billion friends, you're bound to face life alone and that's the truth.

It hits hard when the realization sinks in that nobody really cares. What matters most to you is not much of a big deal to others. Everybody's focused on their own issues; your problems are only secondary. And that is perfectly fine. It teaches you not to wait on the applause or approval of men or expect someone to push you because it may never happen. Learn to be your own motivator, cheer yourself on and push for greater heights. Nobody's going to do that for you.

The weight of an adult's responsibility can be very daunting. Taking decisions is not an easy feat. There are times that we wish our parents could take the decisions for us. But that era is long gone, and it all boils down to our choice. There will be countless dilemmas and tough decisions to make, especially when it comes to career and life in general. Don't forget - you're going to suffer the consequences of wrong choices. All these can be overwhelming but seeing them as an adventure is the best coping mechanism. Mask the fear of uncertainty with enthusiasm and move along.

Thank God for staying friends though. When family feels distant, these ones hold the forte. Because of them, life feels a little less lonely.

As an adult, it's inevitable to carry the burden of your responsibility and everything that concerns you. Grow a tough skin, happy yourself and above all, face life head on. This is only the beginning - and trust me, you'll be fine.